Admin's Real Talk for the Nigerian Player
My Nigerian Brethrens, Ears Open!
As a Nigerian man, you got that special something to be a champion romancer. But first, understand that having the bag is key, yet dating ain't about being a cheap local.
1: No Upfront Payments, No Chance
These scammers will try to finesse you with crazy amounts. Some might even ask for thousands or tens of thousands in one swoop. But know this - if you ain't folding to their demands, you won't lose a dime or deal with any long things. A real woman who wants you will simply wait until you provide for her comfortably.
2: You Need A Whip
Most people don't want outsiders knowing their business. So expect to hear, "Who you pulling up with in that motor?" Best to have your own wheels to keep your moves lowkey with your partner.
3: Be A Spender, Not A Lender
In the beginning, don't be a local baller watching every kobo. Women judge whether to wifey you based on how you step. Some might call you a "broke boy" and dip out. Bad gal tingz who make heads turn expect to see you can take care of them properly from the jump. That's player 101.